थे slap

then life slaps the shit out of u and its all clear

थे slap

then life slaps the shit out of u and its all clear

letting go

LETTING GO OF PEOPLE ISNT SAYING I HATE U,ITS SAYING I LOVE ME.

CONFIDENCE

CONFIDENCE IS SOMETHING WE LACK TO OFTEN ,ALL IT TAKES FOR A DREAM TO COME TRUE IS DEDICATION AND PATIENCE.

I LOVE JAYZ

JAY IS A FRIEND IN MY HEAD,HE COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER.WHAT U EAT DON'T MAKE ME SHIT!I LOVE IT .STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOIN, DO U!

THE MOTIVATION

FIND A REASON WHY U DO IT ALL ,SO THAT IT CAN MOTIVATE U TO WORK HARDER AND DO BETTER.NO ONE CAN FIND THAT FOR U ,U HAVE TO FIND THAT THING FOR YOURSELF.

THE CHOICE IS YOURS

HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE.CHOOSE IT!

JUST LISTEN

DON'T BE INTIMIDATED BY PEOPLE THAT ARE SMARTER THAN U,WHY IN THE HELL DO U WANT TO TALK TO A DAMN DUMMY

THIN LINE

NEVER LOVE SOMEONE SO HARD U HATE THEM IN THE END.

its really about the end of the day

SURVIVE IS THE NEW WIN!

its a part of hygiene

LADIES WHEN YOUR FEET ARE PEELING LIKE CRAZY AND THE MORE U GET PEDICURES THE MORE THEY PEEL,ITS TIME FOR U TO SEE A PODIATRIST .U HAVE A FUNGUS!TAKE CARE OF THAT ITS A PART OF HYGIENE.PLEASE!

BE GOOD WITH U

mANY TIMES WHEN U RIGHT WITH YOURSELF,THE RIGHT ONE SHOW UP MANY WAY.

mr.right

nobody is worth all your tears.hell mr.right aint gone let u cry that much no way.



words of rev run

u can say it

NO. Is a complete sentence,says Oprah.i cant believe it u guys its that simple.wisdom does come with age and it so ok.:)

passion

get passionate about something today.it will boost your interest level and get your ass off the couch.

NO MORE PTYY PARTIES

STOP LOOKING FOR A DAMN PITTY PARTY.THAT SHIT AINT NO FUN ,IT DRIVES U CRAZY AND MAKE U EVEN MORE CONFUSED ,WHO HAS TIME FOR THAT.

CELEBRATE

CELEBRATE YOURSELF TODAY.TELL YOURSELF U DID A GREAT JOB THIS WEEK.U MADE IT TO THE WEEKEND.NONE OF THESE DAYS ARE PROMISED CHERISH EACH DAY AS IF IT WAS YOUR LAST.

PUT U 1ST

putting yourSELF 1st is sometimes the hardest thing to do,but we have to learn to put SELF 1st.if u are ok then its inevitable that everyone else u love will reap the benefit.lets do something for u today!

LIVING A FULL LIFE

IS YOUR GLASS HALF EMPTY OR HALF FULL?

FACE IT

ladies its time u stand up and take responsibility for what u have done to yourself,in our adult life its our fault if its fucked UP..FACE IT!

A SIMPLE LIFE

A WISE PERSON TOLD ME TODAY,LIFE IS SIMPLE.NOT EASY BUT SIMPLE .HE SAID STOP LOOKING AT EVERYTHING WITH LOVE ,LOOK WITH YOUR EYES.

TODAY IS YOUR DAY

EVERYDAY THAT THE LORD BLESS U TO WAKE UP.U HAVE ANOTHER CHANCE TO START OVER AND MAKE IT RIGHT OR AT LEAST BETTER

the critics

WE ARE OUR WORSE CRITIC.SOMETIMES ITS OK TO GO A LIL EASY ON YOURSELF,ITS NOT AS HEAVY AS WE THINK.SOMETIMES ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND.

about me

this has nothing to do with the blog ,but i felt compelled to share this .my 13year old son sent me a text last night he said"mom i was doing my home work and a thought came to me,so i went in my closet to count my shirts,i have 100.i counted my jeans i have 13 pair.i counted my shoes i have 18 pair.he said, i am so blessed and i could never take u for granted i LOVE U mommy!

i felt like he finally got it omg hes only 13.
love love him so much:)

living life to the fullist

i went to a funeral today,the person that died was only 18 years young.i was thinking about all the things I'm not doing at my age 37,and all the thing he wont be able to experience.i still say God don't make mistakes, he only make us realize whats more important,we must lift his name and live each day like its your last.

p.s
eat with the good dishes for now on, because when u are gone.other people will enjoy the hell out of the material things u cherish so much.

it can happen

hey ladies ,
lets get up and make it happen today come on u can do it .what ever it is u don't like get rid of it .u can do it!

the gift

god determines who walk into your life, its up to u to decide who stay.

SHIT

LADIES I'M GOING TO SAY THIS ONE TIME,PUT SHIT WHERE IT BELONG.IN THE TOILETTE ,AND FLUSH IT.DO U UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M SAYING?THAT COULD GO FOR ALOT OF SHIT.

THE PACKAGE

EVERYTHING U LOOKING FOR WILL NOT BE IN THE PACKAGE U LOOKING FOR !LISTEN WITH YOUR EARS NOT YOUR EYES

the many shapes of life

NO MATTER WHAT U DO U WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO FIT A SQUARE INTO A CIRCLE,SO STOP TRYING.WITNEY SAID "NO MATTER HOW SMALL SHE TRIED TO MAKE HERSELF ,BOBBY WAS NEVER SATISFIED "AND THAT'S FROM A TRUE DIVA.

change it

YOUR LIFE IS THE WAY IT IS BECAUSE OF U,IF U DONT LIKE IT CHANGE IT.NO ONE SAID IT WAS GOING TO BE EASY!

the ultimate goal

just satisfying people or yourself is not enough,but to wow people is the ultimate goal!


words from
raphael
i love this

HAPPY EVER AFTER

IT CAN ALWAYS BE A HAPPY ENDING,ALWAYS!:)

THE REAL ISSUE

LADIES ITS A REASON WHY WE DO THE GOOD AND BAD THINGS IN OUR LIFE.MOST OF THE TIME ITS OUR CHILDHOOD THAT PLAY A BIG PART IN WHAT WE ARE TODAY,WE NEED TO DEAL WITH THOSE ISSUES SO THAT WE CAN REACH OUR BEST SELF.

WHAT REALLY MATTER

DON'T LET OTHER PEOPLE OPINION OF U,BECOME YOUR OPINION OF YOURS.

the woman in the mirror

LADIES THE WORK START WITH THE WOMAN U SEE IN THE MIRROR,U HAVE TO ASK HER TO CHANGE HER WAYS (Micheal Jackson could not have made a better song than, man in the mirror).it starts with u ladies get up, do something !make it happen.if u look a mess to u what the hell do u think u look like to other people.

your best self

IN ORDER TO REACH YOUR BEST SELF U NEED A PARTNER.HELL OPRAH GOT GAIL,BILL COSBY GOT CAMEILE AND WILL GOT JADA ,ALL I'M SAYING IS THAT EVERYBODY NEED SOMEBODY .U CANT DO IT ALONE ,SHIT ASK MICHAEL JORDAN.

go for it

DO SOMETHING U NEVER DID,TO GET SOMETHING U NEVER HAD.MAYBE U NEED TO CHANGE FRIENDS OR A BOY FRIEND,SHIT U MIGHT NEED TO CHANGE YOUR DAMN FAMILY.PEOPLE SAY U CAN'T .I SAY U CAN ESPECIALLY IF THEY DON'T MEAN U WELL.U CAN FIND OTHER PEOPLE TO FILL THAT VOID.

OFFSPRING

HOW CAN U TRUST THAT A MAN WILL TAKE CARE OF U,IF HE'S NOT TAKING CARE OF HIS OWN OFFSPRING?

the mirror

WHEN U LOOKED IN THE MIRROR WHAT DID U SEE THIS MORNING?I HOPE U SAW A PRODUCTIVE PERSON DOING EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO MAKE YOUR LIFE THE ABSOLUTE BEST ONE U CAN ,BECAUSE BABY U ONLY GET ONE LIFE,BE LIKE NIKE AND JUST DO IT!

TAKE A CHANCE

INSTEAD OF STANDING NEAR THE RIVERS EDGE,ASKING FOR A CUP OF WATER TO GET U THROUGH THE DAY,U SHOULD DO SOMETHING UNTHINKABLE JUMP IN ON FAITH AND SEE WHAT'S WAITING FOR U ON THE OTHER SIDE.U WILL NEVER KNOW IF U DON'T TAKE A CHANCE.

so picky

ITS OK TO BE PICKY LADIES,BUT SOMETIMES WE PICK AND PICK TIL WE PICK SHIT!

FAITH

NEVER LOOSE FAITH IN GOD OR YOURSELF ,IF U ARE IN A WHOLE THE ONLY WAY OUT IS UP.

RELATIONSHIPS

DON'T LEAVE THE PERSON U LOVE FOR THE PERSON U LIKE,BECAUSE WHEN THE PERSON U LIKE MEET THE PERSON THEY LOVE,THEY GONE LEAVE U.

THE SIGNS

NIGGA'S WILL ALWAYS GIVE U THE HEADS UP, BUT U HAVE TO READ THE SIGNS. IF ITS THE WAY HE DRESS ,THE WAY HE TALK,THE SHIT HE TALK ABOUT TO THE PLACES HE TAKE U .CUPCAKE HE WILL LET U KNOW WHATS UP!

DIVA

A TRUE DIVA KNOWS WHAT THE FUCK SHE WANT ,AND NOT AFRAID TO ASK FOR IT.THAT'S WHATS UP!

I'M TELLING

THIS SHIT HIT ME LIKE A MACK TRUCK. NIGGAS CANT DO NO MORE TO U THAN U ALLOW,U CAN SHUT THAT BULLSHIT DOWN WHEN EVER U WANT TO.U KNOW WHY ?BECAUSE U HOLD THE PACKAGE CUPCAKE!

your worth

LADIES ALL I HAVE TO SAY TODAY IS KNOW YOUR FUCKING WORTH!FALL FOR THAT BULLSHIT, U WILL FALL FOR ANYTHING.

YOUR A GAME

CUPCAKE ITS VERY IMPORTANT THAT U STAY ON YOUR A GAME.EVERYTIME YOUR MAN LEAVE THE HOUSE ITS ANOTHER WOMAN SOMEWHERE AUDITIONING FOR YOUR JOB.SO LADIES WE HAVE TO KEEP IT TOGETHER. PLEASE!

FACE IT GIRL!

GIRL WHEN U AND YOUR MAN WALK INTO A ROOM AND WOMEN ARE LOOKING, OR SHIT IF MEN ARE LOOKING.WHY ARE WE SO UPSET?WHO THE HELL WANT TO BE WITH SOMEBODY THAT NOBODY WANT!

BELIEVE HALF OF WHAT U SEE,AND NONE OF WHAT U HERE.

MIRRORS CAN BE VERY TRICKY,THEY CAN SOMETIMES MAKE U SEE THINGS THAT ARE JUST NOT THERE.ITS ALL IN YOUR MIND CUPCAKE.

GET INTO THAT PERSON CALLED ME

I TOTALLY KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO FEEL LIKE U DONT BELONG .WHEN U LOOK IN THAT MIRROR AND HATE WHAT U SEE.LADIES STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT.U DESERVE MORE, I WANT U TO LOVE WHO WE ARE.THE FIRST STEP IS TO START TALKING.WELL I CAN TALK TO A BUMB ON THE STREET .WHAT I MEAN IS TALK TO WHO EVER WILL LISTEN, THINGS SOUND DIFFERENT OUT LOUD.

THE UGLY LIE

WHEN U LOOK IN THE MIRROR WHAT DO U REALLY SEE ? IS IT BEYONCE, AND U'RE A FAT DARK SKIN CHIC. DO U SEE NAOMI CAMPBELL, AND UR SHORT AND THIN GIRL. WHAT EVER IT IS U THINK U SEE I PLAN TO HELP U BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF.